Keys to Human Relationships (Anonymous)
The six most important words: I admit that I was wrong.The five most important words: You did a great job.
The three most important words: Could you please. . .
The two most important words: Thank you.
The most important word: We.
The least important word: I.
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Try these words out - put them to the test and see if you notice anything different in your day-to-day walk. Does your walk - talk? My dad used to always tell us kids . . . "make sure your walk - talks louder than your talk - talks"! Don't be all talk, take time to listen, and speak from your heart with honesty. Look around and notice who is walking with you and practice the above formula for good human relations whether it is with those you work with, your family, or your friends. These words are the recipe for the best alphabet soup you could add to your vocabulary!!
Look at these important words and use them frequently. They show that you care about those around you. That you aren't afraid to face up to your mistakes and admit you were wrong. Admitting you were wrong does not make you any less of a person - most think more of you for being honest. These words show that you have noticed those around you and are ready to compliment and encourage them. This is just what some people need to boost their self-esteem and you could be the one to "make their day". When you ask, you seek wisdom, imput and knowledge from other's opinions. We can learn so much from the advice of others if we will just ask and listen. And this also makes them feel good - like they are of value. It is always polite to use "please and thank you"! We don't really hear these words much any more, do we?? The little word "we" is inclusive - it brings together. In our busy, frazzelled, unevenly balanced life, we need a little "togetherness", don't you think? And last but not least is the "big I". Life is not always about me . . me . . . me! I am NOT the "Queen Bee" in my world and neither are you in yours!!
Look at these important words and use them frequently. They show that you care about those around you. That you aren't afraid to face up to your mistakes and admit you were wrong. Admitting you were wrong does not make you any less of a person - most think more of you for being honest. These words show that you have noticed those around you and are ready to compliment and encourage them. This is just what some people need to boost their self-esteem and you could be the one to "make their day". When you ask, you seek wisdom, imput and knowledge from other's opinions. We can learn so much from the advice of others if we will just ask and listen. And this also makes them feel good - like they are of value. It is always polite to use "please and thank you"! We don't really hear these words much any more, do we?? The little word "we" is inclusive - it brings together. In our busy, frazzelled, unevenly balanced life, we need a little "togetherness", don't you think? And last but not least is the "big I". Life is not always about me . . me . . . me! I am NOT the "Queen Bee" in my world and neither are you in yours!!
Let's make a special effort to use these important words every day! Starting TODAY!!
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